1. Discuss Expectations: Have a conversation about what they envision for their party. This includes the number of guests, theme, location, and budget.

2. Plan Together: Involve your teen in the planning process. This could include choosing the venue, sending out invitations, and deciding on the menu.

3. Set Ground Rules: Discuss rules regarding alcohol, curfew, and behavior. Make sure both you and your teen are on the same page to avoid any misunderstandings.

4. Prepare for the Unexpected: Despite the best planning, things may not go as expected. Teach your teen to handle situations gracefully and to be flexible.

5. Have Fun: The goal of the party is for your teen to have a memorable time. Encourage them to enjoy the moment and create lasting memories.